Final Blog ... Arrived Home in Maryland, Mission Accomplished!
It has been 3 days since I have arrived home. I woke this morning at 5am, ready to start my day. I then realized that I didn't have anything pressing at the hour and so I started in to write my final blog entry. Over the last two days, I have been cleaning up 3 weeks worth of mail and paperwork and trying to acclimate to my normal life. I love seeing JoAnn and the kids, but I don't miss all of the busy work.
It's hard to believe that after 23 years of thinking about my trip, that it is now behind me. I ask myself if the hype that has built up inside my head has lived up to the outcome, and I am relieved that the answer is a resounding, 'yes'.
There were many things that kept me pedaling over all those miles. There were the letters that the kids and JoAnn wrote ahead of time that I rationed out over the trip. The videos from Josephine were a big motivator, not only because she was so beautiful on the clips, but also because I wanted to get home so I didn't miss her first crawl or words. The comments and encouragement from Facebook and responses to my blog were also great to read along the way. I really felt like I had a small army pulling for me.
Independently, I always repeated in my head that every mile, every hill, and every pedal rotation was one step closer to home and to the completion of my goal. At first, it was hard to keep this in front of me because of the tough physical challenge, but after a few days, the mantra was manifest like a routine running in the back of my mind. Because the physical task of biking all day became easier in time, I began to free up plenty of mind space to enjoy the many rewards that a bicycle trip across half the country has to offer. I slowed down in every small town that I passed through to get a sense of what each pocket of America was all about. They all had their differences, but they seemed to share some qualities. Among them, the towns all seemed to have a line of patient customers standing at a mom and pop ice cream stand just off of main street. There was never a shortage of American flags flying high and proud, and the children always waved when they saw us passing through. Some would challenge me to a short race on their own bikes.
Many of these towns and the quiet roads are bypassed when you take the major interstates. You see the signs but rarely stop. These are the places I think that the American dream still lives on in abundance. The people seem to move a lot slower and smile more. It was very refreshing to witness in short snapshots how they lived.
From endless farms, towns, roads and the people along the way, I was given a well targeted lesson on how to breathe and relax. I had come on this journey not just to check off an item on my bucket list, but to force myself to recalibrate and think differently. I'm 46 and maybe I have a few less years ahead than what lie behind, it has become more important than ever for me to consciously find my true path. I knew that 3 weeks on a bicycle wouldn't give me the 'answers', but it certainly cleaned out the cobwebs, cancelled out the static and allowed me to receive and digest the cues that I needed.
The short ride from Laurel, MD to Davidsonville, MD was only 25 miles. It was an easy ride and I had time to kill so I took my time and savored the final moments. I processed the experience and what I had learned and was careful to take some mental snapshots and push them deep into long term memory. Ironically, as I passed through some of the Laurel back roads, I passed Laurel Race Course where I had worked so many years ago as a parimutuel teller (the guy that takes the bets on horses through a window ). I quit that job to become a waiter at the restaurant where I would meet 'Steve', the guy that cancelled on me last minute on the first leg of the trip 23 years ago. I also passed through the Patuxent Wildlife Refuge where he and I would go to train. I know it will read kind of goofy, but I think it was another sign. Originally, I had no plans on passing through Laurel on the way home. It was actually kind of a fluke. I hadn't biked on these roads in all these years and what were the odds that I would travel them again on the last day of a journey that I started 23 years ago. It was a great way to end the trip and really drove home that I had finally finished what I had started long ago.
It is with a bit of sadness that this will be my last 2 Wheels, 7 States, 1500 Miles blog entry. I have been keeping a journal for close to 20 years now, and this is the first time that anyone has ever read a word of it. I received a lot of positive feedback which really helped me to stay on track and write every night. It was a great experience and I highly recommend it to anyone that wants to see America in a different way and get great exercise. Maybe, as I did, they can use the sound of the rubber on the asphalt and wind in their face, to gain clarity and a fresh perspective.
One of the coolest gifts I received when I returned home was a custom hat that reads 2 Wheels, 7 States, 1500 Miles, DONE with a big check mark. It succinctly and simply says it all. It has earned a prominent resting place in my office.
I try to live my life consciously knowing that it's about the journey and not the destination. For the most part, I believe it is true. But when I pulled up that driveway three days ago, it may have been the exception to the rule. The ride was great, but the destination (Home), was spectacular.
Life. Live it.
Daniel
Thank you all for your support. Some final pictures from the road:
Where I started training 23 years ago!
Big Thank You!
Thank you to all of the sponsors for their confidence in me and contributions totaling close to $28,000 ($3000 over goal). Lots of gratitude to the DeCesaris / Prout Cancer Foundation (DPCF), who organized a great welcoming ceremony. I want to apologize to all that attended. I was in a state of shock both from completing the ride and with all the people standing in the driveway, that I couldn't really speak. It would have been a perfect time to say something meaningful, but at the time, 'let's have a beer!' seemed to be all that would fall out of my mouth. I wish I would have blurted out how grateful I was to all of you for being there and for supporting me along the way, so I hope that this afterword will suffice. Thank you is not enough..
A special thank you to Mom and Nick for their help on my last solo leg into Davidsonville. And to JoAnn for watching over everything when I was gone and giving me support all along the way. And to Connor, Kathryn and Ryan whose letters carried me through the journey every morning. I couldn't have asked for more. I love you all.